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Carmen Maura weaponizes middle-aged rage in a comedy that asks: is leaving the only way to stay alive?
TMDB
60
Rotten Tomatoes
56
Audience Score
56

How to Be a Woman and Not Die in the Attempt (1991)

screaming into the voidmarriage as endurance sport90s feminist chaos

Overview

Comedy

Carmen, a journalist with two children, is on her third marriage, to Antonio, a record producer. Over the course of a year, we follow her through her discontents: Antonio's lateness, his fatigue when she wants to make love, his insistence on her company when she prefers solitude, his treating her work as less important than his, his casual and cruel dismissal of her opinions, her boss assigning her an incompetent editor, bartenders ignoring her, her passage into middle age. She can be feisty and edgy, which sometimes gets in the way of what would make her happy. And she regularly threatens to leave Antonio. Will she, and on what terms? What will he do?

Flag of ESESSpanish
Content warning
based on novel or bookrecord producerwoman directorjournalist

Standout Aspects

Acting

Maura's volcanic restraint—every eye roll is architecture.

Direction

Belén's debut captures the texture of lived female exhaustion.

Writing

Dialogue that weaponizes the mundane: 'I'm late because I exist.'

Best for:Solo: For when you need to feel seen in your resentment.·Friends: Watch with your fellow tired women. Wine mandatory.·Rewatch: Layers of microaggressions reveal themselves.
Heads up:Triggers: Relentless depictions of emotional labor and dismissed ambition.
Ana Belén

Director

Ana Belén

ReleasedApr 5, 1991
Runtime1h 40m
StatusReleased

Vibe

Pacesteady
Intensitymedium
Tonemixed
Feelheavy
Iberoamericana Films Producción
Atrium Producciones

Top Cast

Carmen Maura

Carmen Maura

Carmen

Antonio Resines

Antonio Resines

Antonio

Carmen Conesa

Carmen Conesa

Chelo

Juanjo Puigcorbé

Juanjo Puigcorbé

Mariano

Miguel Rellán

Miguel Rellán

Alfredo

Tina Sainz

Tina Sainz

Emila

Asunción Balaguer

Asunción Balaguer

Madre de Antonio

Enriqueta Carballeira

Enriqueta Carballeira

Pepita

Mercedes Lezcano

Mercedes Lezcano

Pilar

Juan Gea

Juan Gea

Ginecólogo

Miguel Arribas

Miguel Arribas

Carlos

Francisco Casares

Francisco Casares

Director

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Deep Dive

Trivia, insights & behind the scenes

Cultural

Released during Spain's post-Franco feminist wave, the film captures a generation negotiating new freedoms against persistent machismo.

Trivia

Director Ana Belén was already a massive singer-actress; this was her audacious pivot behind camera, casting her friend Maura in what became a signature role.

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